Friday 28 August 2015

Girls and their many personalities

One of the problems about being a teenage girl is that we have different personalities for different situations. This applies for British people also (I'm from England btw) but most, if not all, teenage girls act differently given different situations. I recently saw a post on Facebook saying that every girl has five personalities and a list of those five personalities. So today, I am going to be writing about those personalities and how I act in these situations:

1. How she acts in school
Okay, so when I'm in school, I would say that I'm a quiet individual. In lessons, unless I'm sat with one of my friends or with people I feel comfortable talking to, I will rarely talk. And for some reason, when getting asked to answer a question by a teacher, my voice is very quiet and sometimes breaks slightly because of how quiet I'm being. 

2. How she acts around her friends
When I'm with my friends, I would say that I'm definately louder than when I'm in lessons. I talk a lot more and get a real confidence boost. I act slightly crazy, but I'm still the quietest, or one of the quietest, out of all my friends. Sometimes I might not want to talk so will go on my phone and will look through snapchats or will go on Instagram or Facebook. But most of the time, I act how I think is my normal personality.

3. How she acts around her family
When I'm with family, it does depend on who I'm with. If I'm with my mum, dad and bothers, I say whatever I want and do whatever I want to them because they know what I'm like. If I'm with my dads side of the family (gran, uncles, aunts and cousins), I tend to be very quiet. Almost like when I'm in school, except I'm a bit louder. When I'm with my mums side of the family, I tend to be a mix between how I act when I'm with my friends and how I act when I'm with my mum, dad and brothers. 

4. How she acts when she's with him
At the moment, I don't have a boyfriend so I'm going to write about how I acted with my previous boyfriend.
With my ex, it was all very funny and cute. I used to have to sit by him in science and we would constantly be talking and would sit very close to each other. Whenever I was with him, if I had my phone out and saw a post or picture that I thought he'd like I'd show him and I would tell him anything and everything. There was rarely a quiet moment between us and I felt like my life was a fanfic (he wasn't anyone famous but our relationship was basically like how people describe relationships in fanfics). I would go into more detail but I'm saving this for another post.

5. How she acts when she's alone
I have two personalities when I'm alone - the day one and the night one
Day one:
I tend to imagine funny situations and just laugh a lot to myself and then imagine something even funnier and laugh more. 
Night one:
I cry. I might've looked at a snapchat story and see some of my friends hanging out without me and I begin to wonder why I wasn't asked to hang out with them. I also tend to think about sad things such as a family member dying (my grandad died a few months ago) and I think about how I regret not seeing him in his final few weeks. But on the whole? I end up crying and 80% of the time, I cry myself to sleep.

So there we have it! Sorry to end on a depressing note but this is all five of my personalities. I can't help being who I am and no one can ever change that. Please leave comments below if you act like I do or if you act differently. Remember, I'm here for you all if any of you need me.

Love Beth xx